We Provide Care for Our Critically Ill Daughter. Can We Be Compensated for This?

Caregivers often need physical, emotional and financial help.

A reader recently wrote: “Our daughter is on disability and has been for several years. She has been critically ill since June 15, 2014. I have had the full responsibility  of her care her whole life but especially these last few months. We are completely tied down and have been the whole summer. Can I be compensated for the care I give her?”

Our best wishes go out to anyone in this situation. We know providing lifetime care to a family member is not only physically and emotionally draining, it takes a financial toll, too.

Help finding programs and resources
For help finding financial relief, start by consulting city, county, state and federal agencies for the disabled. Don’t overlook hospital outreach programs, religious organizations and support groups for specific disabilities — all of which may be able to put you in touch with caregiving resources in  your community. Also, check with your local Social Security Administration office on eligibility requirements for public benefit programs.

Tax breaks for home caregivers
For additional help, we reached out to CPA Keith Depies of Roberts, Ritschke & Tyczkowski, Ltd., Neenah, Wis. Here’s what he had to say:

Individuals can be compensated for providing care to their critically ill family members. Depending on the requirements of providing care to family members, the compensation may be taxable to the provider. Previously the IRS ruled that compensation payments to a related individual would be taxable income. However, earlier this year the IRS issued Notice 2014-7, which allows individuals who are compensated for providing care to qualified individuals to exclude the compensation received from taxable income, whether or not they are related. There are several requirements to qualify for the exclusion under Code Section 131 of the Internal Revenue Code. The first is that the payments are to be received under a state Medicaid Home and Community-Based Services Waiver (Medicaid waiver) program.

Other important requirements:
  • The difficulty of care payment is required as compensation of the additional care needed because the qualified foster individual has a physical, mental or emotional handicap.
  • The care must be provided in the provider’s home.
  • The state must determine the need for this compensation.
  • The payor must designate the compensation for this purpose. 

A state may obtain a Medicaid waiver, which would allow the cost of home or community-based services to individuals who would otherwise require care in a hospital, nursing home or intermediate care facility. Home services include personal care services such as eating, bathing, dressing, hygiene, medication management and meal preparation. Providing these services in your home are generally more cost effective and are necessary to avoid institutionalization of the patient.

Each states law determine how their program is going to be administered and whether or not family members can be compensated for providing home-based care. The states may also work through an outside agency to certify individuals and Medicaid providers to provide services to eligible individuals. These care programs and the providers are then either approved by and monitored by the state or contracted agency.

The new rulings are effective for qualified payments received after Jan. 3, 2014, but a taxpayer may be able to use this guidance for any qualified payments that were received in previous tax years. Please consult with your tax professional for guidance related to your personal facts and circumstances. More qualifying information and definitions can be found here:  http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-drop/n-14-07.pdf.

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Caring for the caregiver
Remember, you must also care for yourself in order to be an effective caregiver. Consider respite care to give yourself an occasional break. Respite care can be as informal as an agreement with other family members or friends, or a formal contract for services with an agency.

If you haven’t already, visit our Caregiver Resource Library for more than 1,500 links to government organizations, health care services, financial resources and more. And here are articles that may offer additional help:


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The Scoop on Adult Diaper Brief Banks

Marlene Ceragno and her organization,
The Adult Care Brief Bank in New Jersey. 
Have you heard of Adult Diaper Brief Banks? They are similar to a diaper bank for infant and baby diapers, but cater to the adult need for absorbent products. 

Marlene Ceragno runs an organization called The Adult Care Brief Bank in New Jersey. For many years before starting her organization she had never heard of a diaper bank. Then her daughter’s high school did a competition between grade levels to see who could build the biggest diaper wall. The diapers were donated, and this fundraiser was done to benefit a local woman’s shelter. This was a well-known fundraiser and the community really got behind it. Through this fundraiser she realized the need, and saw that it went beyond babies and toddlers.

Diaper banks can help anyone, not just babies and toddlers, and the need is there for adult protective products. Over 13 million Americans have incontinence, and need absorbent products. And those products for incontinence are not cheap.

Are Your Inflamed Bowels Causing ABL?

Could inflamed bowels cause ABL? 
Could inflamed bowels cause ABL? Inflammatory bowel disease of IBD impacts the GI tract. There are different types of IBD, all with similar symptoms, such as Crohn’s disease and ulcerative colitis. 

Crohn’s most commonly affects the end of the small bowel (the ileum) and the beginning of the colon. However, it could impact any part of the GI tract. Whereas ulcerative colitis is limited to the colon (large intestine). They are different diseases, but both lead to ABL.

Regardless of the specific type, inflammatory bowel disease means an inflamed GI tract that could cause problems such as chronic or persistent diarrhea, bleeding from the rectum, urgency in bowel movement, abdominal pains and cramps, the sensation of incomplete evacuation, bowel obstruction and constipation.

Why You Should Care About Adult Diaper Brief Banks

Marlene Ceragno and her organization,
The Adult Diaper Brief Bank in New Jersey
Millions of Americans have incontinence. Incontinence is when the bowel or bladder leaks. This is accidental, unexpected leaks that can lead to discomfort, isolation, health problems and more. One of the ways people manage this condition is with absorbent products or incontinence supplies. In other words, with adult diapers and similar products. 

Unfortunately, the cost of adult diapers is roughly $100/month and Medicare and most insurance companies do not cover this expense. This can make getting the products needed cost prohibitive for many adults.

How Pelvic Floor Dysfunction Leads to ABL, and What You Can Do About It

Pelvic floor dysfunction can lead to ABL. 
The pelvic floor is made up of muscles that do a number of things. They help hold organs in place. They help control the bladder and bowel. And more. When they do not function properly it can lead to ABL. 

Abnormalities of the pelvic floor muscles and nerves, also called pelvic floor dysfunction can lead to ABL in a number of ways, including:


Does Your Loved One Need a Medical Alert System?

Guest post contributed by Charlie Kimball and medicalcarealert.com


Falling is one of the most serious threats to elderly people living independently. It’s not a matter of if your loved one falls, it’s a matter of when. It’s best to be prepared in advance. Ask yourself these questions:
  • Will you be there when they fall? 
  • Will your loved one be able to access a phone when they fall? 
  • Will your loved one be cognizant enough to tell the EMT important medical information? 

Adult Diaper Brief Banks: Your Guide to Helping and Getting Help

Marlene Ceragno and her organization,
The Adult Brief Diaper Bank in  New Jersey
Have you ever heard of a diaper bank? Most people have, but in regards to babies. Unfortunately, over 13 million Americans suffer from incontinence and need adult diaper briefs. And many of those who need them simply can’t afford them. 

Medicare and most insurances will not cover the cost of absorbent products unless the individual is living in a care facility. If they live at home, the individual often must shoulder the responsibility of cost for adult diaper briefs themselves. For many seniors and disabled individuals this means going without other necessities because their fixed income can only stretch so far. It also means wearing products too long, compromising comfort and skin health, as well as confidence, in order to make adult diaper briefs affordable.

But fortunately, there are places individuals with incontinence can turn to for help with affording supplies. Adult Diaper Brief Banks are a relatively new resources, but offer aid to those who need it.