|A few suggestions for how to get your loved one|
to help manage their incontinence symptoms.
First, let the doctor introduce the subject-Whether your are the caregiver, the son, the daughter, or a friend, if you have a loved one who is incontinent, don’t be the bearer of bad news. Let the doctor be the one to talk to them about it initially. It offers some authority, and does not come across as opinion, but as fact. When the doctor introduces the subject, ask that they address treatment options and cures.
Second, be empathetic but not hesitant-
It can be embarrassing for an adult to have incontinence, but it is important to discuss it despite privacy and dignity. Admit your discomfort, but let them know you aren’t backing down. Avoidance and denial will not solve anything. Show compassion for how challenging it will be for them. Help them know that you understand how it is embarrassing for them. Being empathetic is critical, but you cannot hesitate. There will be far more embarrassment, and other potential problems if the incontinent individual does not use absorbent products.
Third, talk about how common it is-Normalize it. For many, refusal to wear adult diapers comes from pride, but it can also be a result of the unknown and scary. More than 25 million adult Americans suffer from some degree of incontinence. Help your loved one understand that this is a common medical condition, and one they can seek treatment for. Try to avoid using the words diaper or adult diaper when talking about absorbent products. Instead, call them disposable panties or disposable underpants.
Fourth, be matter of fact about advantages of wearing absorbent products-Absorbent products offer incontinent individuals many advantages, including healthier skin, less embarrassment, protection, odor control, and more. They can even help protect furniture.
Fifth, show them their options-
If your loved one still refuses to try, just leave some in his or her underwear drawer and drop the matter for a while. People are often torn between wanting a solution to their problem and getting over their own pride or misconceptions about absorbent undergarments.
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