|A few things to consider if you are feeling anger.|
- Meet your needs too. Far too many caregivers run themselves into the ground trying to meet the needs of their loved ones. You need to take care of your needs too. Consider this: If a friend ran out of gas, could you drive a can of gas to them if you were out too? By taking care of yourself first, you will be a more effective, and far happier caregiver. It will give you what you need to increase and improve your caring, and remove a lot of guilt.
- Ask for help. If you find that you are regularly feeling anger as a caregiver, it may be time to make a change. Many family caregivers think they have to do it all, and they do not ask for help because they do not want to admit they can’t do it all, or burden others. There are many resources caregivers can use for help, from senior centers to home delivered meals. Caregivers can delegate some responsibility, and should if feeling overwhelmed.
- Use the right tools to make life easier. Caregivers that find themselves feeling anger may simply be overwhelmed and frustrated. This is often a result of inadequate, improper, or insufficient tools to meet the needs of their loved one. For example, if a loved one suffers from incontinence, and they do not have the right absorbent products, the caregiver may find themselves cleaning up leaks, doing extra laundry, and more. Simply changing to a better fitting, or more appropriate absorbent product could eliminate a lot of work. With aid in getting the right tools to make life easier, and to get the right products for your needs call 800-985-1353 M-F 9-4 CST to talk to one of our product specialists. This is an all-female team who have each been a caregiver to a loved one. Since this is their only business, they know the products inside and out, and want to help you
- Find an outlet. Caregiving often involves difficult and unpleasant tasks, little thanks, and even less time for personal relationships and hobbies. This can lead to anger and resentment, so find an outlet for your feelings. A friend you can complain to. A forum with other caregivers, a hobby you enjoy that can help you reduce stress.
Being a caregiver is hard; it involves much time, much energy, and boatloads of patience. Give yourself a break when that patience runs out and you find yourself feeling angry. Instead of trying not to feel anger, look for productive ways to become a more effective caregiver.
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About The CareGiver Partnership. The CareGiver Partnership helps caregivers and their loved ones with answers to their caregiving questions, including information about home health care products and supplies, from our Wisconsin-based team of Product Specialists who are all current or former caregivers. The company’s Web site provides the largest online library of resources on subjects most important to caregivers — from arthritis to assisted living, and Parkinson’s to prostate cancer — as well as access to more than 3,000 home care products for incontinence, skin care, mobility, home safety and daily living aids. The CareGiver Partnership was founded in 2004 by Lynn Wilson of Neenah, Wisc. Visithttp://www.caregiverpartnership.com to learn more or call 1-800-985-1353.